A Fun Filled Week at Rockwood Lodge

The weather was so cooperative last week that Mom and I never sat down to blog together. But we did have time to talk and share in many experiences.

First and most importantly, Mindy, Josh, Jordan and I had a safe trip and were fortunate to be able to bring Lin's Mom along with us for the visit. Highlights of the week included a campout, swimming, Jordan's first Northern Pike, a family canoe trip, a few moose sightings and a trip to Grand Marais.

Mike and Lin are doing well. Its the busiest time of the season, yet we still managed to find time to be family. I was super pleased with how well Mom is recovering. She is able to read and is now writing words again which is a huge improvement. She has conversations with guests at the Lodge and is in very good spirits. Some times the words just do not come, but the meaning usually does. As mom said herself, "My mind is fine, the application is lousy."

Each day of our trip had a completely different adventure to it that we will try and chronicle here over the next few posts. As we have returned to the 100 degree heat of the Heartland we miss greatly the spectacular views of the BWCA, Lake Superior, and perhaps most of all the fact that a Moose crossed our path on the Gunflint Trail on our way home.

Mark

Hot!

The temperature hit 100 degrees here in Kansas City today so I thought I’d call up to Rockwood to hear about a typical refreshing 74 degree Northwoods summer day. I quickly find out from both Mom and Dad that the temperature was over 90 there and that sleeping at the house – without air conditioning – is not anything they are looking forward to this evening. We’ll let them have a sympathy vote for one night; but, I don’t think a hot night in the suburb truly compares to one in the boundary waters.

We do however have central air here!

Has been awhile since a post but the news has been good. Mom is heading to Two Harbors for therapy twice a week and is making progress although I think the therapy of friends and visitors on the Gunflint Trail do more good than any therapist to date. There are definitely more words each and every day and our conversations are getting longer. I think she’s doing great and am very anxious for Mindy (my wife) and the boys and I to get up and visit next week for our family vacation. I know Mom is too, and I can tell she is practicing her drills to prepare for a week of grandson activity. What better therapy than her 4^th and 6^th grade grandsons?

I am hopeful to get the chance to make the next post with Mom from Rockwood Lodge as she is far more talented at this than I. At some point, I suspect Mike will change the password on me, particularly if I compare the BWCA to the suburbs again. I am confident though that anyone following this blog knows there is no comparison and that we all know where we would prefer to be in July and August.

Stay cool everyone.

Back Home

Dad snuck Mom out of Duluth last Saturday to spend a refreshing day at Rockwood Lodge. The news spread rapidly along the trail and I am told there were many neighbors stopping in for a visit.

After returning to Miller-Dwan for two days, she was dismissed from in-patient therapy and came home this evening. We are all very relieved and happy. Mom is diagnosed with aphasia and will learn to overcome the challenges it poses with time, patience, and continued therapy. Dad said she was up and already putting life jackets away during her first trip home.

While no follow up surgery date is set yet, she will begin trips twice a week to Two Harbors for continued speech therapy.

Thanks again for all the support. Still praying for a speedy recovery.

Lin Update

We thank each of you so much for your concern, prayers and signs of support this past week. Lin (mom) improves a little each day and is up and moving under her own power. Speech therapy continues to be the primary focus and, as frustrating as it is, we recognize it will take time for her to recover her gift of words!

The plan now is for her to continue at least another week of in-patient rehabilitation at Miller-Dwan. Mom wants to be back home at Rockwood as soon as possible, and Dad would second that, but everyone acknowledges that the best thing for her now is as much therapy as possible. When it is time to get back home, there will be numerous return trips to Duluth for therapy and follow-ups. Those of you closest to Rockwood and are able can be a huge help at that time. Looking a few more weeks down the road, we are all upbeat about the prognosis and recovery associated with a corrective surgery to widen her carotid artery to prevent this from recurring again.

Please continue to keep Mom and Dad in your prayers. It is truly felt and appreciated!

Mark Sherfy

Guest Blogger

Some of you may have heard that Lin experienced a mild stroke last week. After spending the weekend and recovering well at St. Mary’s Hospital in Duluth, she moved to the Miller-Dwan Rehabilitation Center on Monday. Miller-Dwan is a wonderful facility and an excellent place to get her back to Rockwood Lodge as soon as possible. We do not have any idea yet how long this rehabilitation stay will be.

Lin’s biggest challenge will be managing the gradual return of speech. Her memory and ability to understand were not significantly impacted; but, it is frustrating right now to know what you want to say and not have many words. Miller-Dwan will be scheduling her days this week with little time for breaks and have informed us she will be exhausted. For these reasons we ask that phone calls please be reserved only for family.

Mike and Rockwood Lodge are being swarmed with support and it has been appreciated. A huge thanks for all who pitched in the past week to keep Rockwood as wonderful as ever. Rockwood’s neighbors and the Gunflint Trail community have also come up strong. We are truly grateful for the wonderful patience of our patrons last week, and in the weeks to come.

We gladly accept prayers for healing and rest. Lin told me herself that, “This too will pass.” Mike has been getting some rest and we all know Rockwood is such a peaceful place for that. It is my intent to post periodic updates here as things improve. Thank you for your concern, thoughts and help.

Mark (Mike and Lin’s son)

Cards or flowers may be sent this week too:

Linda Sherfy, c/o Miller-Dwan Rehabilitation Center, Room 220 - Bed 2, 502 E. Second Street, Duluth, MN 55805